Activities you can do
Relaxation
Listen to a relaxation tape or guided imagery tape
Visit the Self Care section of this site for relaxation exercises you can do
Visit the Experiences section of this site to relax to a 5-minute Guided Imagery audio
Try the gentle yoga or stretching exercises in our Self Care section
Breathe in through your nose to a count of 2 and breathe out slowly through your mouth to a count of 4. Try this for 3 breaths and see how you feel
Wash you hands very slowly under warm running water
Throughout the day, repeat a calming word or phrase in your mind
Massage your scalp when you wash your hair
Take your shoes off and walk barefoot in the grass
Sit in your favorite chair and put your feet up
Massage your hands or feet with a nice oil or lotion. Exchange a hand or foot massage with a friend or family member
Switch gears - do a physical activity
return to self-assessmentLaughter and Humor
Rent a comedy movie and invite a friend over
Play with a dog or cat - they can be very entertaining
Do something silly
Tell someone your best joke or a funny story
Play a game with a child
Have a costume theme party
Go to a comedy club or watch a comedy show on TV
Cultivate seeing the humor in things
Here's a morning exercise: Look in the mirror and smile for a minute - this tells the brain that you're feeling good and can make an actual difference in your mood.
return to self-assessmentSocial Connection
Cook with someone else (a friend, relative or neighbor)
Play scrabble or bridge online
Invite someone over for tea
Call, send a note or do an errand for someone who needs some support
Tutor someone
Accompany a friend to a doctor's appointment
Join a bowling team, a bridge club, a hiking club or another group activity
Find out about leisure activities in your area and try one (a concert, lecture, comedy club, art exhibit or book reading)
Do some volunteer work in your community
return to self-assessmentHealthy Eating
Find three healthy recipes you like and try one this week
Bring a healthy snack to work
Try grilling fish, vegetables or turkey burgers at your next picnic or barbecue
Weed your food pantry - donate foods you don't want to eat anymore
Buy a vegetable steamer
Plan your dinner before leaving the house in the morning
Make a grocery list for this week's meals - take it with you when you shop and stick to it
Find a tasty restaurant where you can still stay on your healthy diet
Visit a health food store or a local green market and explore
Browse the cookbook section in your library or bookstore for healthy recipes
Take a healthy cooking class
Learn a healthy substitute for an ingredient you should limit and use it in a favorite recipe
return to self-assessmentPhysical Activity
During commercial breaks on TV, get up and stretch, dance or just move
Hide all your remote controls and get up to change the TV channel
Park further away from your destination and walk there
Get off the bus or subway one stop earlier and walk
Take your dog, your neighbor's dog or your neighbor for a walk
Take a 20-30 minute walk after dinner or a 10-15 walk at lunchtime
Walk or bike to the store instead of taking the car, bus or subway
Get a pedometer and record how many steps you walk in one day (10,000 steps a day is the optimal goal)
Using your pedometer, add 100 steps to your last walking total
Turn on the radio and dance at home
Buddy up with a friend - take a walk or an exercise class
Take a bike ride and explore a new part of your neighborhood
Take the kids to the park - and play with them
Take a gentle yoga or tai chi class
Do the yoga and stretching exercises in our Self Care section
Take a swim or do some water exercises in the pool
return to self-assessmentSleep
Do something relaxing before you go to bed
Write down what's on your mind so you can forget about it for the night
Read something light, meditate or take a bath
If you nap, make it earlier in the day for 15-30 minutes
Only use your bedroom to sleep and relax
Minimize noise, light and temperature extremes: wear ear plugs, get window blinds, have plenty of blankets
Try an herbal tea like chamomile or lemon balm
Use lavender aromatherapy to relax you
Play soft gentle music and use soft lighting
Breathe in through your nose to a count of 2 and breathe out slowly to a count of 4. Keep it going.
Visualize a relaxing scene and notice what you see, feel, smell and hear
Do some easy stretches that help you relax and unwind
return to self-assessmentCreativity
Wear a great color
Next time you need a greeting card, make one
Refinish a piece of furniture in your home
Take your camera with you on a walk and snap some pictures
Sew, knit, crochet on your own or join a local group
Make a tape or CD of songs you like or make one for someone else
Do one new thing today
Notice something new on your regular route
Visit a crafts or art supply store. Notice what interests you
Mix it up - make a new dish, try a new breakfast
Pick up your old guitar (or any instrument) and play some notes
Sing in the shower
Do a creative project with a child
Nurture your artistic self - go to a museum, movie or concert
return to self-assessmentSpirituality
Stroll through a garden and notice colors, shapes and scents
Read or listen to music, a story or poetry that inspires you
Take a walk in nature and feel your feet on the ground
Watch a sunrise or sunset
Attend a religious service
Help someone out or do volunteer work for a day
Read a passage from an inspirational or religious text
Do a short meditation - sit quietly for 5 minutes, breathe deeply, focus on your breath and relax your mind
Spend a day really believing the glass is half full
As soon as you wake up in the morning think a positive thought or be thankful
return to self-assessmentEmotional Well-Being
Write your thoughts and feelings in a journal - don't censor them
Make time to do things you enjoy that bring you satisfaction and pleasure
Speak with someone about your concerns if you are feeling anxious or depressed for a long time - you could see a pastoral counselor, a psychologist, a clinical social work, a mental health nurse or another trained health professional
Share time and thoughts with friends and family who support you
Join a community or online support group
If you like animals, get a pet. They are great companions.
Learn a relaxation technique that can help you manage stress, quiet your mind, and feel calmer
Try yoga, deep breathing, stretching, visualization or positive affirmations (see our Self Care and Experiences sections)
Explore mind body techniques such as hypnosis or biofeedback with a trained practitioner
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